Monday 23 July 2012

How to leave

Okay,I have to answer one of the most asked question of all time

How do you leave someone you love so much?
Is there really a way?

Is it really possible to leave them?

Yes,it is possible,and it hurts like hell

Every time they hurt you,you made up your mind
You wanted to leave

Wanted to leave so badly,yet your heart still ask you

'Really? You really want to leave him/her?'
'Are you sure?'

I'll admit I still have flash back whenever I went to places we've been together
I still remember how happy I was with them,with him,with her

But ultimately,you have to ask yourself

'Why am I thinking to leave at the first time?'
'Is it my fault? Or I should give a second chance?'

Personally,the only time I've faced this situation is when it's related to love & friendship
Some people only face this when it's related to love

I've been through a really really tough time to decide how to leave

Note,it's not only leaving the relationship behind
It's leaving your feelings
giving up on all the 'used to be'
reverting to normal friends,strangers,you name it

No matter how good you think that person might be
You have to decide,is he/she really good to me?

Should I keep our relationship?

It isn't healthy to cling on a relationship
Where you have to endure all the feelings alone
Where you find it difficult to tell him/her your real feelings
Where you get hurt & must stand up all by yourself
Where you knew it was not right for the both of you

Where the other one doesn't tell you 'It's us against the world,mate' or something similar

If it's hurting you,don't just weep
If it hurts the first time,go figure out what's wrong
When it hurts the second time,that just mean things aren't really working out

It's time to consider leaving

It is hard to leave someone who gave you so much happiness
But don't you think
if they could give you such happiness,why can't they figure out your sadness too?
Why couldn't you feel better?

Read carefully,if you're hurting that doesn't necessarily mean it's their fault

It maybe your own attitude problem
scan yourself before you go on telling everyone 'he/she hurts me'

I'm not a GURU
So at the end of the day,I'd only say

If you wanna leave,then leave completely
Don't linger around them because you're not a beggar

If you really don't want to,then change yourself
Complaining,whining & crying,they all don't help