What to do?

There's once
where I held his hand

understands everything he said
knows whatever is on his mind

but still,I asked myself

'What to do?'

*

'What was your ex like?'
I asked,when we started dating

'umm...short,and chubby'
he answered,as though he was only her friend back then

'Huh? I mean her personalities'

'Cheerful,I guess'
Again,with that attitude

'Did you guys had special memories?'

'Uhh...not really,we eat,talk and laugh,but nothing special,really'
He said

I couldn't understand,is that it?

'Not even a little fight or quarrel?'
I asked,because most couples around me get into quarrel

'Nope,that's why I broke up with her'

'Huh..? I thought that was really steady,isn't it?'
A relationship without any fights,how nice is that

'Ya it is,it was very steady,where it reach a level that made me wonder'
he continued

'Why don't we get into fights like normal couples?'

I kept quiet,wondering what is wrong with a steady relationship

'You see,when someone is in love,they don't go on a day without worrying that certain person'
He paused

'And when a couple is together,I don't think going for a long run without quarrel is possible'

'Like us?'
I smiled,we quarrel sometimes,and I don't even knew it was a necessity in relationships to him

'Yes,we quarrel,that's how we know what is on each other's mind'

'I believe a relationship where nobody ask 'what to do' doesn't exist'
he added

I nodded,couldn't agree more

*

A steady relationship is what everyone would hope for

But nothing will be steady at the beginning

At some point,fights and quarrels made you realize how are you treating your love

Then ask yourself 'What to do?'

change? improve? surprise him/her?

Whatever it is,they build up your relationship,whether good or bad

Until now,I still believe

If you're serious enough,
Quarrels,distance,differences are all seasonings and spices to a relationship
Thanks,wind